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<H1>Jessie Reid Wilson</H1>
<H2>nee McKelvie</H2>
<H3>1915 - 1998</H3>
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<A HREF="#funeral">Funeral Service</A> :
<A HREF="#tribute">Tribute</A> :
<A HREF="#committal">Committal Service</A> :
<A HREF="#memorial">Memorial Service</A> :
<A HREF="#interment">Interment Service</A>
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<U><A NAME="funeral"><H2>Funeral Service for Mrs. Jessie Wilson.</H2><br>
24<SUP>th</SUP> November 1998 at 1 PM<br>
Kemback Parish Church, Fife<br></U>
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<I>The service was jointly led by Rev. Andrew Stevenson, recently retired from Wormit Parish Church, Fife;
and Rev. Melvyn Wood, formerly of Clark Memorial Church, Largs, and now Minister in Cullen.</I>
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<B>Introduction</B><P>

<B>Prayer</B><P>

<B>Hymn 681</B> "In heavenly love abiding"<P>
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In heavenly love abiding<br>
No change my heart shall fear<br>
And safe in such confiding<br>
For nothing changes here.<br>
The storm may roar without me<br>
My heart may low be laid<br>
But God is round about me<br>
And can I be dismayed ?
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Wherever He may guide me<br>
No want shall turn me back<br>
My shepherd is beside me<br>
And nothing can I lack.<br>
His wisdom ever waketh<br>
His sight is never dim<br>
He knows the way He taketh<br>
And I will walk with Him<br>
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Green pastures are before me<br>
Which yet I have not seen<br>
Bright skies will soon be o'er me<br>
Where the dark clouds have been.<br>
My hope I cannot measure<br>
My path to life is free<br>
My Saviour has my treasure<br>
And He will walk with me.
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<B>Prayer</B><P>

<B>Old Testament Reading</B>  Psalm 103 v13-18 - Mr. Alan Mordaunt (Son-in-law of Jessie)<P>

<B>New Testament Reading</B>  2 Corinthians 4 v7-12, 16-18  and John 14:1-4,6,27 - Dr. Ken Cochran (Brother-in-law of Jessie)<P>

Born in Brodick on the beautiful Island of Arran; constant visits to grandparents homes on the the shores of the Holy Loch, Argyll, and Greeenock
on the other side of the Firth of Clyde; Jessie's choice of building a bungalow for retirement
in this rural setting of the East Neuk of Fife - all contributed to her intense
awareness of, and delight in, God's creation.  Let us sing ...<br>
<B>Hymn (Songs of God's People) 86</B> "Oh Lord my God"<P>
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O Lord my God! When I in awesome wonder<br>
Consider all the works Thy hand hath made,<br>
I see the stars, I hear the mighty thunder,<br>
Thy power throughout the universe displayed;<br>

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!<br>
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!
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When through the woods and forest glades I wander<br>
And hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees;<br>
When I look down from lofty mountain grandeur,<br>
And hear the brook, and feel the gentle breeze;<br>

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!<br>
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!
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And when I think that God His Son not sparing,<br>
Sent Him to die - I scarce can take it in.<br>
That on the cross my burden gladly bearing,<br>
He bled and died to take away my sin;<br>

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!<br>
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!
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When Christ shall come with shout of acclamation<br>
And take me home - what joy shall fill my heart!<br>
Then shall I bow in humble adoration<br>
And there proclaim, my God, how great Thou art!<br>

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!<br>
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,<br>
How great Thou art! How great Thou art!<br>
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<B><A HREF="#tribute">Tribute</A></B> - Rev. Andrew Stevenson<P>

<B>Prayer of Thanksgiving</B> - Rev. Melvyn Wood<P>

<B>Hymn 680</B> "My times are in Thy hands"<P>
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My Times are in Thy hand,<br>
My God, I wish them there;<br>
My life, my friends, my soul, I leave<br>
Entirely to Thy care.<P>

My Times are in Thy hand,<br>
Whatever they may be;<br>
Pleasing or painful, dark or bright,<br>
As best may seem to Thee.<P>

My Times are in Thy hand,<br>
Why should I doubt or fear;<br>
My Father's hand will never cause<br>
His child a needless tear.<P>

My Times are in Thy hand,<br>
Jesus the crucified;<br>
Those hands my cruel sins had pierced,<br>
Are now my guard and guide.<P>

My Times are in Thy hand,<br>
I'll always trust in Thee,<br>
And after death, at Thy rigth hand,<br>
I shall for ever be.<P>
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<B>Benediction</B><P>
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<A NAME="tribute"><H2>Tribute - By Rev. Andrew Stevenson</H2>
<I>Recently retired from Wormit Parish Church, Fife.
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This tribute was given at the funeral service in <A HREF="kemback.htm">Kemback Parish Church</A>
on November 24<SUP>th</SUP>, 1998.
It also formed the basis of the Tribute given at the Thanksgiving Service on
December 3<SUP>rd.</SUP> by Rev. Andrew S. Taylor.</I><br>
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            Jessie Wilson's death on Wednesday of last week came as a shock to her
            family and friends. Though she had been ill a year ago she seemed to have
            made a good recovery - and indeed she had just driven over to Fife from
            Ayrshire four days earlier. 
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            Jessie was a very fine person - a positive
            person, someone who was well known and highly respected in the communities
            in which she lived and worked - and well beyond these too. Jessie had a
            great gift and ability to make friends, friendships which she actively
            nurtured and kept alive - friendships which lasted over the years. And she
            had many of them both here in the U.K., and overseas.
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            Endowed with God-given gifts of head and heart, hand and soul, Jessie saw it
            as her Christian responsibility to develop these to the very best of her
            ability. This she did and, as teacher, church worker, neighbour, friend
            - as someone with artistic flair and a caring nature, she played her part
            in the life and work of God's world effectively, efficiently and in a
            kindly way.
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            Qualifying from Jordanhill College in the late 1930's as a
            Primary School teacher  she added further qualifications<A HREF="#1"><SUP>1.</SUP></A>
            in Physical
            Education and Art<A HREF="#2"><SUP>2.</SUP></A> that allowed her to teach in Secondary departments. This
            she did most successfully - and I can vouch for that personally for Jessie
            was my first female colleague in Physical Education when I started teaching
            in Dalry High School exactly 50 years ago. And the friendship that
            began then has lasted down the years.
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            From Dalry she moved to Ardrossan Academy
            where she held a post of responsibility, and then for the last 5 years
            prior to retiring she returned to Primary teaching in Stanley School,
            Ardrossan where she became the Assistant Head. A competent, caring, well
            organised and well-prepared teacher she always showed a keen interest in
            the welfare of her pupils. And nothing pleased her more than to meet up
            with her Former Pupils<A HREF="#3"><SUP>3.</SUP></A> and hear how they were faring - this especially so
            in her retirement years in Largs.
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            In retirement she kept herself busy
         and active by, among other things, participating in the activities laid on
         for Senior Citizens, and maintaining her keen interest in Scottish Country
         Dancing - she being a founder member of the North Ayrshire Branch of the
         Royal Scottish Country Dance Society.
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         Underpinning everything Jessie did: indeed the motivating force in her
         whole life was her very strong Christian faith. Her work for Christ and
         His Church was both life-long and immense. Regular in her attendance at
         worship, she was active in every branch of Church life as she passed along
         the Christian way - in Sunday School as pupil and teacher, Girls Association<A HREF="#4"><SUP>4.</SUP></A> and
         Youth Fellowship<A HREF="#5"><SUP>5.</SUP></A> (as member and Office-bearer), Choir and Guild (active to
         the end), as an Ordained Elder<A HREF="#6"><SUP>6.</SUP></A> and as a Reader<A HREF="#7"><SUP>7.</SUP></A> she fulfilled the role in
         each case most effectively and with sensitivity and grace. A capable and
         confident speaker, she was invited to speak at many meetings, and she
         conducted worship most effectively as a Reader when called upon so to do.
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         <IMG SRC="jrw2.jpg" ALIGN=RIGHT>Jessie's was a faith nurtured in the manses of <A HREF="jrw-map.gif">
         Brodick and Dalry</A> where
         she absorbed the loving Christian atmosphere created by her Father and
         Mother.  Her upbringing and that of her sisters was not narrow or hidebound
         for her parents encouraged their daughters to develop width in outlook
         and experience, learn consideration and thoughtfulness for others and being
         aware of the feelings of others, as well as to render service to others
         where help was needed.
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         Jessie got her first trip overseas when she was
         awarded a League of Nations Scholarship when she was 21 - and this took
         her to Geneva. True to her nature, when she returned home she  visited
         various youth groups sharing with them something of her experiences in
         Geneva. In time Jessie was to travel extensively in the U.K. and abroad
         something she greatly enjoyed.
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             Marrying late in life she enjoyed sharing some very happy and fulfilling
             years with David<A HREF="#8"><SUP>8.</SUP></A>. With similar professional
             backgrounds<A HREF="#9"><SUP>9.</SUP></A> they were able to
             share so much and travelled to distant parts on semi-official business.
             They also thoroughly enjoyed sharing and visiting each other's families
             and friends. Jessie was delighted to 'gain' a family in David's children
             and grand-children, and she was keenly interested in their development,
             interests and activities. She received much joy, satisfaction and pleasure
             in her step-family.
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             Jessie was a kindly, caring person - caring for her mother in her final
             lengthy illness, looking after an elderly aunt for many years, and helping
             others in their time of need. A highly organised person, Jessie had a
             dignity about her in all that she did. She had a serious side too to her
             personality - tempered with a good sense of humour. She could be firm and
             frank, always courteous and sensitive to the feelings of others. In her
             life she showed forth the love of her Lord whose teaching and example she
             followed. Many folk have benefited from knowing Jessie and she will be
             greatly missed by family and friends.
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             To her step-family - Marjorie May and Arnott - and their families: to her
             sisters Mary and Jean and their families we offer our sincere sympathy
             and commend them to the love and compassion of Almighty God. We thank God
             for the life of Jessie Wilson, and for the privilege of knowing her and
             sharing something of her active, gracious and valuable life.
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             Amen.
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<H3>Footnotes to Tribute</H3>

<A NAME="1">1. At Dunfermline College of Physical Education - one of two only, to be sponsored
by Ayrshire Education Authority for this Post-Graduate qualification.<br>
<A NAME="2">2. At Glasgow School of Art.<br>
<A NAME="3">3. A former pupil at Ardrossan Academy sang 'Such Lovely Things' at the Memorial
Service in Clark Memorial Church, Largs on 3<SUP>rd.</SUP> December, 1998.<br>
<A NAME="4">4. Youth Service Convener for Girls Association<br>
<A NAME="5">5. Convener of Youth Fellowships, Ardrossan Presbytery<br>
<A NAME="6">6. Elder in Barony Church, Ardrossan ... now Barony - St.Johns<br>
<A NAME="7">7. Reader - Church of Scotland, licensed by Ardrossan Presbytery<br>
<A NAME="8">8. Jessie Reid McKelvie and David Wilson O.B.E. were married in 1984 in the
Members Chapel of St. Pauls Cathedral, London (and 'kirked' in St. Columba's, Pont St. London)<br>
<A NAME="9">9. David Wilson was Physical Education Adviser for Fife Education
Authority - also an ordained Elder in the Church of Scotland.<br>
<A NAME="10">10. Miss Annabella McKelvie, who stayed with Jessie and David from age 82yrs to age 94yrs
and was lovingly cared for in Invereck Eventide Home (Church of Scotland) Argyll, from age 94yrs
to age 98yrs.<br>
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The funeral service was followed at 2:30 PM, by a service of
<H2>Committal at Kirkcaldy Crematorium.</H2>
<B>Introduction</B><P>
<B>Hymn 388</B> "The King of Love my Shepherd is"  v1-4<SUP><A HREF="#star">*</A></SUP><P>
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The King of love my Shepherd is,<br>
Whose goodness faileth never;<br>
I nothing lack if I am His<br>
And He is mine forever.<P>

Where streams of living water flow<br>
My ransomed soul He leadeth,<br>
And where the verdant pastures grow,<br>
With food celestial feedeth.<P>


Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,<br>
But yet in love He sought me,<br>
And on His shoulder gently laid,<br>
And home, rejoicing, brought me.<P>

In death's dark vale I fear no ill<br>
With Thee, dear Lord, beside me;<br>
Thy rod and staff my comfort still,<br>
Thy cross before to guide me.<P>
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<B>Readings</B><P>
<B>Tribute</B><P>
<B>Prayer</B><P>
<B>Committal</B> - Hymn 388  v5-6<SUP><A HREF="#star">*</A></SUP><P>
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Thou spread'st a table in my sight;<br>
Thy unction grace bestoweth;<br>
And O what transport of delight<br>
From Thy pure chalice floweth!<P>

And so through all the length of days<br>
Thy goodness faileth never;<br>
Good Shepherd, may I sing Thy praise<br>
Within Thy house forever.<P>
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<B>Benediction</B><P>
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<A NAME="star">* From Psalm 23 ... Henry W. Baker, 1868.<br>
The first four verses speak of Christ's shepherding
care for us through life. The last two verses speak of His welcoming provision for us in Heaven.
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<U><A NAME="memorial"><H2>Service of Thanksgiving for Mrs. Jessie Wilson.</H2><br>
3rd December 1998<br>
Clark Memorial Church, Largs<P></U>
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<I>Rev. A. S. Taylor, recently retired from Union Church in Greenock and locum minister during vacancy at Clark Memorial Church, officiated</I>
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<B>Call to Worship</B>
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<B>Hymn 367</B>
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                                      For the beauty of the earth,<br>
                                      For the beauty of the skies,<br>
                                     For the love which from our birth<br>
                                       Over and around us lies,<br>
                                      Christ our God, to thee we raise<br>
                                     This our sacrifice of praise.<P>

                                      For the beauty of each hour<br>
                                      Of the day and of the night,<br>
                                    Hill and vale, and tree and flower,<br>
                                    Sun and moon and stars of light,<br>
                                      Christ our God, to thee we raise<br>
                                     This our sacrifice of praise.<P>




                                       For the joy of human love,<br>
                                      Brother, sister, parent, child,<br>
                                   Friends on earth, and friends above,<br>
                                     Pleasures pure and undefiled,<br>
                                      Christ our God, to thee we raise<br>
                                     This our sacrifice of praise.<P>

                                      For each perfect gift of thine,<br>
                                      To our race so freely given,<br>
                                       Graces human and divine,<br>
                                   Flowers of earth and buds of heaven,<br>
                                      Christ our God, to thee we raise<br>
                                     This our sacrifice of praise.<P>
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<B>Prayers and Lord's Prayer</B>
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<B>1<SUP>st.</SUP> Reading :</B> Ecclesiastes 3 v1-8,11-14 - Alan Mordaunt (Son-in-law of Jessie)
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<B>Solo :</B> "Such Lovely Things<A HREF="#C"><SUP>1</SUP></A> " - Anne Jones
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Such lovely things are yours and mine forever,<br>
The peaceful stream, the murmur of the sea.<br>
The far off hills, aglow with purple heather<br>
Such lovely things God made for you and me.
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The lark in flight upon an April morning<br>
The rolling downs, the sweetly scented air,<br>
A starlit night, the glory of the dawning<br>
All these and more were made for us to share.
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Such lovely things are yours and mine to cherish<br>
A field of corn, a weeping willow tree<br>
Sweet vales and hills whose beauty ne'er shall perish<br>
Such lovely things will surely ever be<br>
God made them all<br>
For you and me.
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<B>2<SUP>nd.</SUP> Reading :</B> 1 Thessalonians 4 v13-14,18 & John 14 v1-6,27 - Dr. Ken Cochran (Brother-in-law of Jessie)
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<B><A HREF="#tribute">Tribute</A></B> - Rev. Andrew S. Taylor
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<B>"Ave Maria"</B> ... Flautist - Caroline Morgan (former pupil of Jessie)
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<B>Prayers</B>
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<B>Intimations</B><A HREF="#0"><SUP>2</SUP></A> 
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<B>Hymn 279</B>
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Thine be the glory, risen conquering Son,<br>
Endless is the victory Thou o'er death 
hast won;<br>
Angels in bright raiment rolled the stone away,<br>
Kept the folded grave-clothes, where Thy body lay.<br>
Thine be the glory, risen conquering Son,<br>
Endless is the victory thou o'er death hast won.
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Lo! Jesus meets us, risen from the tomb;<br>
Lovingly He greets us, scatters fear and gloom.<br>
Let the church with gladness hymns of triumph sing,<br>
For her Lord now liveth, death hath lost its sting.<br>
Thine be the glory, risen conquering Son,<br>
Endless is the victory thou o'er death hast won.
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No more we doubt Thee, glorious Prince of life;<br>
Life is nought without Thee, aid us in our strife.<br>
Make us more than conquerors, through Thy deathless love;<br>
Bring us safe through Jordan to Thy home above.<br>
Thine be the glory, risen conquering Son,<br>
Endless is the victory thou o'er death hast won.
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<B>Benediction.</B><P>
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<A NAME="C">1. Words: Henrik Ege.  Music: Michael Worth. Copyright: 1949<br>
<A NAME="0">2. A retiring offering was taken in gratitude to the North Ayrshire Cancer Care
(the volunteer drivers who shuttle patients to hospitals for treatment.)
Also for "Hearing Dogs for the Deaf"
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<A NAME="interment">The memorial service was followed by a private ceremony of
<H2>Interment at Kilmun</H2>
<IMG SRC="jrw-klmn.gif" ALIGN=RIGHT><I>McKelvie family resting place on the shores of the "Holy Loch".</I><P>
<I>The Rev. Evie Young officiated</I><P>
<B>Readings</B><P>
<center>Psalm 62 v8<br>
Romans 8 v38-39<br>
1st Peter 1 v3-4<br>
2nd Corinthians 4 v16 - 5 v1<br>
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<H3>The Commendation</H3>

"Let us commend our sister Jessie to the mercy of God, our Maker and Redeemer.
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Jessie, our companion in faith and sister in Christ, we entrust you to God...<P>
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Go forth from this world<br>
in the love of God the Father,<br>
in the mercy of Jesus Christ who died for you,<br>
in the power of the Holy Spirit who strengthens you.<br>
At one with all the faithful living and departed,<br>
may you rest in peace and rise in glory,<br>
where grief and misery are banished<br>
and light and joy evermore abide.
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Amen".
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Published on the Internet, for the use of Friends, Family and Former Pupils around the world - in memory of
Jessie Wilson by her nephew, <A HREF="mailto:ken@atlanticnetworks.com">Kenneth Cochran</A>.<P>
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Howell, NJ  07731<br>
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